There was a young man on Twitter
For whose ideas he needed a 'Sitter'
Try as he might, there wasn't a bite,
So I said 'Give it here mate,- I think they're great.
It's only me, so there won't be a fee,
People will love your Price Guarantee!'
And it's for Mother's Day...
The young man, James, from buyagift.co.uk was touting on Twitter for someone to host his Mother's Day 'Unusual Places to take Mum this Mother's Day.' It wasn't proving popular, but I've checked his site out before and been quietly impressed. Apart from offering the simply awesome line 'If you find the same product cheaper online within 14 days then we'll refund you 150% of the price difference!' - his ideas are original and most importantly of all for mums, personal and fun!
I fancy a Segway Experience one day, ( a ride on an oversized vertical scooter). It looks amazing!
And who wouldn't fancy a Helicopter ride over some serene countryside?
My Shitty Ex-Husband, sure as eggs is eggs, isn't going to provide any suggestions to the boys for Mother's Day for me and even when I was married to him, it was always better to order my own presents. It's the sort of thing that works for a lot of women. It will be my first Mother's Day with my boyfriend in tow. What's he expected to do? It's not really his place to sort something, is it?
For a start, when perusing this lovely list from James, he was scrolling downwards towards the Glamping trips (Glamorous Camping - Ugh!), while I was trying to scroll back upwards to the really decently priced Hotel Breaks. He was using the mouse, I was on the keyboard. We didn't get very far!
And if you don't want to go far and fancy something more civilized than indoor sky-diving, perhaps for your own mum, James has come up with a range of picturesque locations for tea for two.
Seeing as it is supposedly a family affair though, I think we'll go (because it's probably down to me!) for one of his British Heritage days out.
What do you think? Do you have to organize your own treats for Mother's Day or are you lucky / organized enough to be utterly spoilt? Is it an occasion in your house, or is the focus more on your own Mum(s) for it?
When Kate Takes 5 wrote about doing / not doing Valentine's Day, I found the responses surprising. If your own unit has broken down, it's easy to be envious of the imaginary perfect world others might inhabit, when, in reality, things can be just as tricky or awkward for them.
Mother's Day could easily slip by here, with cards from my sons' school and playgroup probably being the best they could muster at such a young age. Should my (live -in) boyfriend pull out all the stops to make it a special occasion?
I am at the age I am grateful to eventually be a Mum at all! Is that enough for you?
If it isn't - and, as yet, I remain undecided on what to do, if anything- and you want adventure or something more conventional, at least James has put some thought into it. Trusting that you can get hold of the keyboard / mouse alone (and bearing in mind that sexy price guarantee) - at least you can make it whatever you want it to be i.e. Yours!
Mother's Day is 18th March. Bring it on!
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ReplyDeleteI'm so rubbish at 'Days' I don't do Valentines, bint info feel I have to do 'Mother's'. It is normally just some pretty spring flowers and a book and maybe a cake (if she's not on a diet!).
My Hubby and boys try - a bit(!) normally. Cold toast in bed made by the boys and a nice Sunday roast made by hubby, but the thought's there!
Now afternoon tea somewhere posh sounds good. Doubtful, but good! And thanks for the reminder!
My husband is rubbish at sorting anything out. One year he came home with two orchids from mark&spencer and asked me which one I wanted (pink or white), the other being for his mum. I hate orchids. Afternoon tea somewhere lovely sounds great. At least we can do that on the fly. Hubby is not organised enough to book a restaurant. Toast in bed sounds great, hope you get at least that and a steaming coffee!
ReplyDeleteYou are absolutely right not to feel envious of other Mums who have husbands (not shitty exes!) to arrange a treat for Mother's Day.
ReplyDeleteWe actually christened our youngest on Mother's Day in 2009 - and he forgot me completely.
"Mothering Sunday" must have been mentioned 10 times during the service, and I gave him a gift basket to present to his own Mum.
It wasn't until we got back from the church that I realised there was no gift waiting for me - and I burst into tears (partly baby blues).
He's never forgotten that, or stopped feeling bad about it.
So I know I'll get some flowers/chocs.
But to be honest, I know it's bought out of guilt/fear that he'll get into trouble if he doesn't do it.
I'd rather forget Mother's Day completely - and have gestures of appreciation given to me at random.
It's sad we need a day to show how much we love and appreciate each other.
To donna from Lost and Found - well at least you all make a bit of effort! Glad you like James' idea and the reminder is scary both ways!
ReplyDeleteHi Polly - from Caughtwriting - At least your hubby makes a bit of effot but that's my point - perhaps you can book something?! XX
ReplyDeleteHi to Donna from Mummy Central. yes I know these stories of imperfect reality abound, and I agree that thoughtful gestures throughout the year matter more, but good luck - perhaps drop some hints! XX
ReplyDeleteA card would be nice! And a little time to myself! mmmm and some new face creams .... and a sock in the bath!
ReplyDeleteMother's Day is a different date in France - it's in May I think - so I just send my mum some flowers in March.
ReplyDeleteAs for mine, there's no husband to sort anything and as I spend my life sorting things out I just usually tell the boys I'm on strike that day - no cooking etc. My eldest tried to make pancakes last year for us all- they were a disaster and the mess had to be seen to be believed. I also got him to make me a cuppa, took 3 goes before it was acceptable.
Sometimes it's just less hassle to do nothing!
Top tip there Sarah, thanks. I will be on strike that day! I'm sure you're mum will love her flowers!
ReplyDeleteHi Older Mum- that all sounds good but what's a sock in the bath?!
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