It could be said that I'm quite precious about it and that's because it's like the last shred of anything left that's me and mine alone. Well, it was.
It seems internet access is more or less a must now for children as young as him (eight) to be able to do their homework and we're lucky that we have it because, as easy as it is to take it for granted, not everyone does or is able to and this must pose a problem.
He already suffers
a little social exclusion because he is entitled to free school meals and the Pupil Premium that comes with it, which means pulling him out of his normal classes (or something I'm completely vexed about, even his class Christmas party, along with all the others who get it) for extra reading and writing tuition, despite the fact he doesn't need it and it would be hard to bear if this were to be stretched further again, because it can be crippling.
However, it seems if the school handles it right, this not need be the case. Aly says her girls had/ have use of their VLE (Virtual Learning Environment) which helped before she had her own laptop and it seems most schools offer some sort of homework clubs at lunch time or after hours. I guess it doesn't necessarily have to mean this is just because it can't be done at home with so many kids taking part in so many after school activities nowadays and there is often a local library that offers the same. For older children this can have exactly the opposite social effect!
The lovely Helen has found that being able to log in and complete homework on line though has been a godsend and it has really improved her son's maths. It has certainly given mine more impetus to
So there's me thinking this is the future Peeps, only to find that Angie's daughter, who's just left High School (and since when did we start calling it that?!) at 18, has required access to the internet for her homework her whole time there, with laptops being lent out as required and I have a friend whose daughter, 11, 'had to have' a computer of her own for Christmas as she has just started Senior School and their own PC wasn't up to what she needs for hers. So it's the past too, as well as a present (geddit?)!
But it gets worse/better - Annie has found herself sharing theirs with her five year old who's been asked to research their local village on-line, Jenny, whose eldest is also eight says 'How else would we find out what the socio-economic climate of the Cook Islands is?' with their school offering funding for families if it's really needed and Cass talks of one that goes a step further by actually having a payment scheme set up so parents can pay monthly for an ipod touch for children from year 5 upwards.
The Crazy Helen says her eldest two are always pestering for the laptop, particularly the older one as much of his homework is done on the school homework website and he also needs the use of a printer, but must use the school one because she doesn't have colour ink. Resist, I say. Resist.
So it seems our little grapples are just the beginning of things to come.
*goes for a lie down*
*clutches laptop closer*